How to develop your personality?
Dalip Singh Wasan, Advocate.
Everyone of us wants that he should be known amongst the people where he lives and his personality must be so that each one who looks at him, deals with him, starts loving him and respecting him. We decorate ourselves and now a big industry has been established around us who are providing us items with which we can decorate our personality, especially, women like to decorate themselves and now beauty palour have been established in each town who are helping in improving personality of men and women. Here are some basic points which could be followed to develop a good personality:
Keep yourself clean and put on clean and pressed clothes which suit your person.
Keep your health in order.
Prepare yourself before coming out in the public.
Develop your language so that you could talk in the language of the person with whom you are dealing.
You should never be harsh with the person with whom you are dealing with.
You should not tell lies and if possible, speak the truth or keep silent.
You should keep your word and do not start making lame excuses.
You should keep your face smiling and should not be in a weeping mood.
You should avoid telling others your bad things and if need be, tell them what good had happened with you.
You should create self-confidence in you and you should maintain it.
You should avoid condemning yourself to inferiority complex.
You should see that your children are going on well because if they are in bad shape, you would lose much in your personality.
You should develop good relations with your life partner, with your colleagues, with your officers and with your subordinates.
Avoid putting fingers in your nose, in your mouth, in your ears and never start cutting nails when somebody is standing before you.
You should develop your eyes and face so that when you are talking and dealing with a person, these items of your body must behave properly.
Do not spit when you are standing before a person.
Do not start touching your head, your hair or turban when you are before a person.
Do not start seeing hither and thither like a mental person.
You should behave as per the occasion and should not laugh when you are attending last ceremonies of a person who has died a few days ago.
you must be recalling everything about the person with whom you are talking and if you ask his name, he shall be surprised and demoralized.
You should know how to walk, how to stand and how to wait.
You must say something to the man with whom you are meeting like sat sri Akal, jai Hind, Ram Ram, Islamvalekum etc. etc. and if need be, shake hand with him.
You should keep your body in order and your belly is not in control, meet some person who could tell you to develop a good body structure.
So these are some of the basic points which we should follow, if we are really interested in developing our personality. You can add more and if need be, ask your friends to suggest to you some developing piints.
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